Like most of you, I spend way too much time lurking on TikTok But every now and then, something juicy pops up on my FYP that makes me put down the snacks and pay attention. Alanna (@alannafromtuned) is a TikToker who’s been gaining traction thanks to a storytime about how she once dated a now-famous Korean actor who’s currently gracing our Netflix screens.

Naturally, the internet is in full detective mode trying to figure out who he is (spoiler: she’s not naming names LOL!).

She’s sitting at just 1,229 followers right now, but with bio gems like “poster girl of simp nation” and “i like them foreign,” plus this Netflix-adjacent dating saga, I wouldn’t be surprised if her follower count starts climbing fast.

Anyway, I went ahead and summed up her six-part series for those of you who prefer to read your gossip instead of watching it, or in case you know, she decides to hit DELETE.

Parts 1-6: I Dated A Korean Actor

Alanna dated a Korean actor before he was famous, now known for Netflix series. In 2016, she taught English in Korea as part of a government-run program. She downloaded Tinder to meet people and immerse herself in the culture. She matched with a handsome Korean guy and they planned to meet the next day. The guy was exceptionally good-looking, with perfect bone structure, skin, and features. They had an instant chemistry, and he was flirtatious from the start. He spoke fluent English, and they had a great conversation while trying Korean chicken and beer. Alanna thought he gave off “fuck boy” vibes but wasn’t looking for a relationship at the time. He was in college, studying something high-profile, and was three years younger than her.

As Alanna continues to share her a personal story about dating a Korean actor, she tells viewers that she is asking for privacy and not seeking clout. The story goes off tangent as she speaks about self-value and attraction, especially for black women and women of color, encouraging confidence in dating outside their race. She met the actor on a date and recalls having good banter and conversation. On their walk back to her dorm, he expressed interest in kissing her, but they only hugged, which she considers a first clue about cultural differences. They continued messaging and planned another meeting, but she had a bad mood due to her period. On their second outing, she got lost in the rain, and he found her, showed care by getting an umbrella, and protected her from the rain. The date became more romantic, but she felt embarrassed when they coincidentally met her school’s administration at the restaurant. She felt like she was breaking rules by being out with someone early in their relationship. .

On their second date, she got lost in the rain and started her period, making her feel embarrassed and self-conscious. He found her and took her to a restaurant where she saw her coworkers, making her feel even more uncomfortable. Despite her bad mood, he was reassuring and sweet, trying to break her out of her funk. They went to try bingsu (a Korean dessert) and she started to feel a little better. She took a photo with him but cut his head out, not wanting to seem creepy. They got into a mini argument, but she can’t remember what it was about. Despite the argument, he walked her back to her dorm, showing his gentlemanly side. She didn’t express her true feelings to him and handled the situation poorly. The next day, he texted her, feeling like she didn’t like him, and she didn’t take accountability or explain her behavior. The situation eventually fizzled out as they stopped talking, and she moved to a new city for work.

After settling in Korea, she started teaching and got to know her city. She dated a few other guys but concluded that she didn’t enjoy dating in Korea. She became nostalgic and reconnected with the Korean actor she had previously dated. She apologized for her past behavior, and the actor forgave her, and they started talking again. She got really close to the actor, who was struggling with pressure from his parents to be successful. The actor was stressed about his future, and she tried to support him. They made plans to meet, and she got anxious and excited, even making vlog-style videos about her feelings. When they met, she was struck by the actor’s appearance and felt like they were in a rom-com. Her teacher saw them together and asked about the actor, making her feel embarrassed.

She recounts a date with a him where they shared makgeolli and had a strong connection, culminating in a top-kiss-of-her-life moment. He grabbed her face, spun her around, and kissed her intensely, making her feel like time stood still. Before this, they had discussed not just hooking up, as she made it clear she wasn’t interested in casual se*x. Despite this, they continued to flirt and eventually cuddled in bed while watching a movie. As things got more intimate, she held back, and they had a conversation about her reservations. He wasn’t pressuring but was confused, and eventually, he got ready to leave, but she asked him to stay the night. They cuddled all night, and he eventually left, but their relationship status remained unclear. They continued talking but less frequently, and she started talking to other guys, feeling uncertain about their future. They agreed to meet again, and she suggested he meet her friends for her birthday, but he stood her up. She concluded that it might have been overwhelming for him, given the cultural differences and his young age. The experience left her with mixed feelings, but she doesn’t blame him, acknowledging the challenges of dating as a foreigner in Korea.

In the last video, Alanna thanks everyone who watched all five parts of their story and defended her, acknowledging it was a long story. She addresses why she would make up a story about dating an actor, stating it wouldn’t make sense to fabricate such a story for clout. She mentions she wouldn’t reveal the actor’s identity to protect his career and personal life. She recalls intimate phone calls with the actor, where she learned Korean phrases like “Pogoshippo yo” (I miss you). She shares memories of the actor being funny and making fun of her, including a traditional Korean bow. Years after they stopped talking, she got back with her ex-boyfriend, married, and had a daughter. While watching a Korean drama on Netflix postpartum, she discovered the actor was in it, revealing his successful career. She reflects on her past relationships, hinting at more story times about dating people in the entertainment industry. She plans to create a shorter version of her story and answer questions without revealing the actor’s identity. She thanks viewers and invites them to suggest what they’d like to see next.

So there you have it folks! She won’t give a name but just for the fun of it, I asked ChatGPT to try and guess who it might be. Here’s what I got:

Here are some of the top contenders who fit the “Korean actor currently on Netflix” vibe based on what’s trending and who’s blowing up right now:

1. Song Kang – Forever dubbed the “Son of Netflix,” he’s starred in Love Alarm, Sweet Home, Nevertheless, and more (literally the poster boy for Netflix K-drama breakthroughs!).

2. Lee Do-hyun – Known for The Glory and Sweet Home, this emotionally deep lead is killing it—though he’s currently serving in the military, which might make a low-key dating story unlikely.

3. Hwang In-yeop – Brooding, charming, True Beauty alum turned Netflix star (The Sound of Magic). With 22 million followers, his fangirls aren’t letting go anytime soon.

4. Ahn Bo-hyun – The villain of Itaewon Class who turned into a heartthrob in My Name, Yumi’s Cells, and Military Prosecutor Doberman—all Netflix-adjacent vibes.

5. Byeon Woo-seok – Cast as Solo Leveling’s hero in the new live-action, he’s riding wave after wave of Netflix hype.

Gossip Guru Verdict

Let’s be real though, Song Kang and Byeon Woo-seok feel like the top-tier guesses right now. They scream Netflix royalty and match the story’s buzz-worthy energy. That said, all of these guys fit the profile of a rising Korean heartthrob you might have quietly dated…so who knows?

The videos are linked below if you want the full storytime experience.

Part 1: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/7533029482626698526

Part 2: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/753340530362746806

Part 3: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/7533772604654538015

Part 4: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/7534522892458003742

Part 5: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/7534863440360279326

Part 6: https://www.tiktok.com/@alannafromtuned/video/7535258015600004365